Tuesday, October 1, 2013

An open letter to ANY man who tries to bring me down

This evening I had a man tell me I was 15 pounds away from being his dream girl...

Yes, you read that correctly. 

I am clearly an idiot magnet.

Yeah, I look the exact same as when I met you less than a month ago. I looked phenomenal a month ago. I still look phenomenal.

I am not a stick thin girl. I will never ever be that. I am perfectly fine with that. I have busted my ass to lose almost 60 pounds and I'm proud of my body and the transformation it has made and I am finally comfortable with it. Yes, I have fat days and sometimes I am bitter about the size of my ass, which never seems to get smaller.

This body of mine teaches Zumba three days a week and does pilates, yoga and kickboxing. I carry babies on my hips, the groceries all in one trip on my arms and sometimes the weight of the world on my shoulders. I am fortunate it has not let me down so far. 

If you bothered to get to know who I really am, instead of what I look like, you would know how proud I am. I can lose 15 pounds. I can lose a million pounds. But right now, who I am and what I look like, someone out there can fall in love with.

And you sir, will have a relationship as shallow as you.

Keep dreaming.

I can't WAIT TO DELETE YOUR NUMBER right now.

Sara <3